Element 1 of 10

Mutuality of endeavor

Consultation can only be effective when the consultee participates fully in the process.

Key points

  • Consultants convey the necessity of co-constructing meaning and developing hypotheses together with the consultee.
  • A full understanding of a child, family or situation is only possible with input from the consultee.
  • The consultant’s advice is useless if it does not consider the consultee’s perspective and understanding of the situation and, ultimately, their willingness to participate in bringing about change.

Source: Element text is reproduced from 10 Elements Comprise the Essential Core of an Effective Consultative Stance, Center of Excellence for Infant and Early Childhood Mental Health Consultation (2025).

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