Element 2 of 10

Avoiding the position of sole expert

In accepting that the work is a collaborative effort between consultant and providers and parents, the position as exclusive expert must be abandoned.

Key points

  • The IECMH consultant does have specialized and crucial knowledge to contribute.
  • Gathering information from all participants is critical.
  • The IECMH consultant seeks to legitimize and heighten the provider’s and caregiver’s sense of expertise.
  • The consultant’s attitude conveys the belief that consultees hold valuable information; helping them to see themselves as the source of ideas.
  • Avoiding the position of sole expert becomes increasingly difficult when called in to respond to a crisis.

Source: Element text is reproduced from 10 Elements Comprise the Essential Core of an Effective Consultative Stance, Center of Excellence for Infant and Early Childhood Mental Health Consultation (2025).

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