Essential Attributes

Essential Attributes

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A consultant’s attributes or personality traits are one of his/her most valuable tools in achieving effective ECMHC. The relationship-based and collaborative nature of consultation necessarily calls for individuals with demeanors that facilitate partnering with and engaging others. Several critical consultant attributes that foreshadow success include:

  • Respectful — values others’ opinions
  • Open-minded/non-judgmental — accepts people for who they are
  • Reflective
  • Flexible — will adjust schedule and modify strategies as needed
  • Approachable/easy to talk to
  • Good listener
  • Trustworthy
  • Compassionate/empathetic
  • Team player
  • Willing to be hands-on and not just stand in the corner
  • Reliable, dependable
  • Self-motivated
  • Positive/upbeat
  • Patient — recognizes that change takes time
  • Persistent — does not give up if there is resistance to change
  • Loves children — shares the “children come first” mentality
  • Warm/people person
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This product was developed [in part] under grant number 1H79SM082070-01 from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS). The views, policies and opinions expressed are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect those of SAMHSA or HHS.